just told her the other night about how much i love pumping and then surprised her with it when she got home from going out with some friends will try to get some pics sunday when we try it again but with a longer pump session...gonna get her to try pumping...will post as soon as i can get some pics...
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Does your wife use any toys? If so say "you know they make toys for men and that you'd been curious to try the pump".
My wife is very supportive of my pumping. While pumping I give her a long full body massage. After a good 45 to 60 minutes I'm well pumped and she feels great.
My wife does struggle sucking my 7" girth 7" + lenght, but she really! loves the extra thickness in her pussy. Another bonus as a ball pumper is the heavy ball slapping she gets on her ass when I'm thrusting into her. She really loves that too.
The rare times I don't pump,(6 3/4"x5 1/2") my penis feels lost in her pussy and I can tell she doesn't get quite as into it. She is spoiled!
luv2pump, I'm in about the same situation as yours. My wife is also ok with my pumping and enjoys pumped sex almost as much as I do, just as long as I don't get too big. Feeling my pumped balls mashed against her is the best. We both love it and I can also see she typically doesn't get into it as much when unpumped. My problem however is with all the increased sensations I tend to not last as long pumped vs unpumped. Still trying to find the balance in slowing the pace some but not to the point where she starts getting board.
I usually "prepare" while we watch TV using a small two stage with a pair of super baggy shorts to cover. The massage is a great idea. Something I know she'll go for so I'll definately have to try it. Have you tried to get her to pump any at all? I haven't had much luck in that department other than one brief demo when when just wanted to see what it felt like. Can't get her to give it a serious go.
Thats great to hear about other married men who pump regularly with their wives. Does your wife ever suggest to you to get your pump on? My wife has a few times. I love it when she suggest that. When she role plays as a "head" nurse She'll say " I have lots of experence with penises. I've seen some really huge ones" I'll be the patient going for a penis exam and she'll bring out the pump saying "this will make your penis bigger". I'll act like its all new to me as she pumps me up and assures me that she knows what she is doing. It's great fun.
Your right about over pumping and reduceing the firmness. I found viagra to be a big help there. It also helps me to hold back longer from cumming. A nice bonus.
No my wife won't pump (bummer) she loves her vibrator too much.