How to talk with wife about ballpuming?

[D_ST4R]

Hey you guys
Someone like me out there who wouldlike to share the experience of ballpumping with his wife.
What did u told ur wife to introduce her in this kink?

[neonpumper]

I got a disgusted look and zero interest. Sex is now nonexistent for the last two years. Pick one or the other.

[ssnaps]

Do you watch porn with her? Having a 'accidental' video pop up of ball/pussy pumping/saline my be a good starting point. Gauge if she finds it off putting or is curious. You know your wife better than we do.

[greenie]

I came out to my wife about ball pumping about 15 years ago (been at it for 20yrs) it was when we were talking about sex and things that turn us on (my wife isn’t very sexual but she knows I am so we have a regular if not as often as I’d like sex) I came out and said “I’ve been trying vacuuming pumping, I saw it in a porn site and it looked good so I’ve been giving it a go when I’m at home alone and I find it very exciting and sexy to do” or something like that, she asked how I did it and if it was safe, I said I read up on it and from all accounts it’s safe to do , I asked if she wanted to see me do because I don’t really like keeping it a secret, she said OK.
She’s not really into ball sacks but said if I like doing it then it was OK by her, at first she would lick them for me as I wanked after a pump, or squeezed them as we fucked, these days it a tickle while I wank and she also said she would rather tight little balls but knows I like big swollen balls so teases me sometimes but I now pump in front of her for hours but keep covered so as not to rub it in her face so to speak.
I’d be doing right now at home while she’s here but have drs appointment for a skin check in 2 days so I’m holding off as I get quite large and don’t want the scrutiny by Dr.
I also wear bands like oxballs these days, back then it was hair bands around my balls so she knew I was a bit obsessed with them which may or may not of helped… basically I found that if it doesn’t affect your love life with her and you are open and truthful, a loving wife will accept it especially if you say you hate keeping it a secret from her, imho
Hope this helps

[D_ST4R]

Wow thank you so much for this answer! This is helpful! <3

[piercedguy76xxx]

ive had pumps for years but only used them on and off and not for very long so they wasnt really doing anything. i tried one about 10 years ago when i done saline, it pumped my cock up pretty huge n fat and loved the feeling off it.

our sex life hasnt been that good over the past few years or so, mainly due to me not having much interest in it(meds and anxiety). now and again ill get the urge then its gone. i have taken up pumping a little more regular to see if that helps me but it dosent really but i do like the feeling of being bigger n thicker. we has sex a few months ago, she had gone to bed early and i got the pump out. i had a feeling she might want to play when i went to bed so i pumped for a while, not too big though but enough so it made a diff in size. she noticed the size when she was groaping and liked it. the next time i went a little bigger and the time after that i used a jar so my balls and cock were pretty big(well a lot bigger than normal) she loves playing with it, only downside she struggles to get most of it in her mouth lol

she has asked me to pump in front of her one day i dont think she will want to wait for hours so i may pre pump then go join her and let her play with the pump for a while then take it off. i did get her some nipple suction cups, i used them on her and she liked that. ive just ordered some bigger ones and im hoping she will use them regular even when we arnt playing. would like to see how big she can get them.

[EdwardSit]

I am sorry, that has interfered... I understand this question. It is possible to discuss. Write here or in PM.

[Going4huge]

I just started doing it in my free time and showed her the results after a particularly good pump. She seemed cool with it, but sex has definitely become hands and oral only nowadays. Sac has grown so much I can't really penetrate.