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I have come to a new point for me in my life when it comes to BDSM. For over a year I have been progressively increasing the levels of my CBT, wearing a 2b split collar ballstretcher 24/7 a few days a week, wearing leather ball stretchers, and for nearly six months I have experiemented with Scrotal Saline Infusion.
Which brings me to this point. I found this post on Craigslist;

(((2 WOMEN want 2 MEN to compete for ONE 2-ON-1 - 27 Date: 2005-12-11Both of you will be on all fours, like 2 dogs You will put your feet facing each other, We will connect a rope around each of your balls, Both of you pull until one of you gives up, The winner is strong enough to get a hot ménage à trois with us.)))

I have a chance to play with two women who appear very real and willing to play with me, only they want to play rough. By rough I mean, they want to crush my balls flat and destroy at least one. Here are some quotes from the emails ;
((("I like pliyers and vices and crushing, I popped a guys ball once, would u let me? people get hurt pulling their balls... now yu sound all babyfaced, we had takers for our tug of war and the loser pulled free a nut and the winner collapsed so we tied them both up and laughed at them and dumped the loser in anotehr citis hospitul (we can be kind to) dont play with us cause I hate you already and will stomp one of yor nuts flatt... we don't take it easy on people like you cause you aren new you will lose 1 or 2 of your balls if u play with us, want it?... stepping on your balls is how id destroy them, how bout i stomp just 1?")
Being that I want to keep them, but want to explore the trampling balls/crushing play w/o losing them, I'm left to wonder. I have been unable to find any sites on How To techniques or safety tips that wasn't vague.
What I'd like to know from you, is what do you think of their offer? You all know better than I who is legit and who is full of crap. Is there a place where you can find info on crushing safety (which just makes me laugh to say it. Sounds like Jumbo Shrimp) I will greatly appreciate any advice you may have to offer...

TheOMB

Only would like to say there are other ways of CBT without having at least 1 ball crushed!
Your balls are way to nice to crush!!

ballbusting doesn't mean to loose a ball.

A good session should be hard, safe and leave your balls as big as after a saline injection
As fisting, or any SM game, it is based on the truth between both partners. Don't believe porn movies where people scream, shout and go for very hard stuff in few minutes. Most of the time they are prepared before.... And porn movie is acting: They play! They never suffer as much as they seem (specialy with fisting activities).

try to find "ballbusting vacuum pumper stud" vidéos, on a P2P program and u'll get a very nice exemple of what i mean.

Be real man, once u'll get bals removed, how will u have pleasure anymore??

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Anyway, i already met people with the real fantasy of beeing castrated. There is several options for that. U can even replace natural balls with fake ones (things u can can from the hospital). But in everything i've seen:
- Castration was made by surgery
- Crushing a ball can be so painfull that it can kill u.

It's really hard to give advice on such ideas as it looks nothing but madness to me. Getting a permanent change on myself really turns me off (tatoos, etc). But, at least, I would only do it for very exellent reasons. For exemple as a present for a partner... A trustable partner.. To show him my passion or something like that.

Your quotes only speak of hate, isolation and... *thrills* Well, i'm not a coward but I would never met someone this way. Maybe these "ladies" try to test you to see if u are balled enought to met them... But I would not try to prove anything to people like this.

Crushing a ball should be the climax of a long time SM relation... If u start with that, u won't be able to go further

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nt nt do u hate urself that much??

A good master/mistress take care of is slave
A good master/mistress listen to his slave

Some fantasy make sense but should stay fantasy.

mw

ps: "L'empire des sens" is a good japanese movie to explain what i mean. But I can't find the title in english... this is not a porn moovie, but the man get castrated at the end.

Hi theonemanbukkake,
don´t blame me for this but this woman is a psycho!
For me SM is plesure and pain on the base of trust. Can you trust this woman?
Hugs
Tim

It is called the Realm of the Senses in English. The Japanese movie.

thks a lot lovely

I met with a friend and she was more than happy to explore the CBT with me. I infused 500ml and we gave it a try, but found I was able to take a lot of abuse with little pain when I was inflated. We are going to try again when I am not full of saline, but it seemed ok. Any other words of advice on the subject?