Talking with others about pussy pumping

[labialovingdick]

How openly do you speak about pussy pumping with people in your real life?

Have you ever mentioned in front of friends, family or any other acquaintances, that you are sometimes using this special kind of toy? Was it rather easy or difficult for you to talk about it with people who usually aren't involved in your sex life? What were your apprehensions and what were you hoping for? And most important: How did those people react on your confession? Were they rather interested or shocked?

In order to give you some background information:
In our case, there is a befriended couple we trust a lot, but haven't told them anything about our sex life yet (apart from regular adult jokes). However, I'm not sure who brought up the idea initially, but in order to distract us a little from this whole depressing pandemic situation, the four of us are about to attend an online „sex toy party“ next week, in which a salesman or saleswoman is going to present us some toys via Skype or Zoom, depending on each attendees' preferences. So we now consider revealing some of our pussy pumping habits in front of our friends...

Again, please excuse our bad English, unfortunately it is not our native language. But we are looking forward to read your replies on this special topic!

[lok_ki]

Hello,

it has never come up in conversations with friends, mainly because we share other common interests. It is a bit difficult to change topic from maintaining and repairing vintage motorbikes to pussy pumping. I think most of us just think we are the only ones to enjoy a bit kink in our life.

In my opinion a party like the one you mentioned is a great idea to test the waters. You can play "newbie" and buy a cheap pump. If your friends ask you for your experience, just answer, they already know what you may have purchased.

Greetings from Germany,
Chris

[labialovingdick]

Just to give you an update: We had that online meeting with that toy saleswoman and our friends. But we haven't brought up the courage to mention pussy pumps as our favorite kind of sex toys. So it ended up in a pretty entertaining and fun evening talking about regular vibs and dildoes. And it was quite interesting to have our friends join this conversation. But not really what we were expecting.

[lok_ki]

Hmm,

did the saleslady present pumps? If not, I can imagine that it is a bit tricky to get the topic to this nice toy. Anyway, if you can contact the saleslady you may ask her directly to present pumps in a later meeting

have fun,
Chris

[Lin]

Ich war vor Jahren mal bei einer Dildoparty, aber pumpen wurden da nicht gezeigt. Nur normal Sachen, 08/15 halt.

[labialovingdick]

Ich war vor Jahren mal bei einer Dildoparty, aber pumpen wurden da nicht gezeigt. Nur normal Sachen, 08/15 halt.

Ja, aber bei dieser Online-Dildoparty durfte man vorher einen Fragebogen ausfüllen und Wünsche äußern in welche Richtung die Präsentation dann gehen soll. Wenn man es offen lässt (und so haben wir es dann doch gemacht und nicht die Pumpen draufgeschrieben; und wir gehen davon aus dass auch unsere Freunde da nix Spezielles hingeschrieben haben), dann zeigt die Frau halt einfach ihr Standardrepertoir, sozusagen ihre Bestseller. Und das sind bei den meisten Leuten eben scheinbar die etwas langweiligen 08/15 Dildoes und Vibratoren. Auch die machen ja Spaß, keine Frage. Aber nix im Vergleich zu einer Muschipumpe.

Haben uns einfach nicht getraut.