How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2016 11:21 pm
How many members are also members of Fetlife?
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How many are also on Fetlife
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Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2016 11:49 pm
Is it free and is there a pumpers community there too?
Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2016 11:52 pm
Yes and yes.PumperDane wrote:Is it free and is there a pumpers community there too?
Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2016 12:14 am
cool, I'll check it out then 
Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2016 12:17 am
I'm 2Many2Mention on Fetlife. There's a small pumping community there. There are these groups: Ball Pumping, Cock Pumping, Hydro Pumping, Pumping Personals, The Pumphouse and Vacuum Pumping. Yes, it's free, but the pumping groups get little traffic.
The problem that I have with Fetlife is that it seems to cater to straight immature guys who get off on dominating women, often to the exclusion of anyone else. Unfortunately, many of these guys are not at all supportive of gay men. People of color (i.e. folks like me) sometimes are treated poorly. They have a page on the site called "Kinky and Popular" that looks like a sleazy bondage version of Penthouse magazine--a straight male teenager's fantasy. To me, it's just plain awful, especially on a site that supposedly supports diversity and is supposed to respect women. When people have questioned that page or some of the other things on the site, Fetlife's response is always, "This is what the majority wants." As a result, the site attracts more and more straight, immature homophobic males who are into dominating women. If that's your thing, fine. If you have other interests, be prepared to be overwhelmed.
The problem that I have with Fetlife is that it seems to cater to straight immature guys who get off on dominating women, often to the exclusion of anyone else. Unfortunately, many of these guys are not at all supportive of gay men. People of color (i.e. folks like me) sometimes are treated poorly. They have a page on the site called "Kinky and Popular" that looks like a sleazy bondage version of Penthouse magazine--a straight male teenager's fantasy. To me, it's just plain awful, especially on a site that supposedly supports diversity and is supposed to respect women. When people have questioned that page or some of the other things on the site, Fetlife's response is always, "This is what the majority wants." As a result, the site attracts more and more straight, immature homophobic males who are into dominating women. If that's your thing, fine. If you have other interests, be prepared to be overwhelmed.
Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2016 1:58 am
I think I need an invite to join. Anyone ?
Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Mon Oct 09, 2017 9:37 pm
Fetlife is great for pumpers. Love the site. See you there.
Re: How many are also on Fetlife
Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2017 7:31 am
I had a look at Fetlife, and I agree with SFBallpumper it's not a pumping forum as such. It seems more toward the DBSM group. I say this because part of the signup requests that you identify sexual preference Hetro, Gay , Bi etc and the sexual role you prefer. They also make a fairly pathetic attempt to get your Mobile/Cell number. I didn't sign up and hopefully I will have forgotten about the site by afternoon tea. I give it the big thumbs down 