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Prince_Man_24 · Joined: 03 Aug 2008 Posts: 8 Location: Missouri

Guys,

My wife doesn't really "approve" of me pumping big. How can I get her to come around to the idea? Any suggestions.

Thanks

xstr8guy · Joined: 03 Aug 2004 Posts: 474 Location: Dallas

Ack! I feel such sympathy for so many of you straight guys having to get the wife's approval to pump. My male partner thinks it's great and even pumps with me sometimes.

Why can't your average woman be cool with pumping? Why would they disaprove?

wantabiggen · Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 148 Location: australia

pump it up. blindfold her, then fuck her. if she doesnt like the new thickness of your cock, then its a lost cause.
both of us pump.

sfbipumper · Joined: 18 Aug 2008 Posts: 18 Location: San Francisco

xstr8guy · Joined: 03 Aug 2004 Posts: 474 Location: Dallas

stinkfinger · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 21

Hey dude....

My wife loves it when I pump... HOWEVER, believe it or not, you can pump TOO BIG...

She likes it thick, but does NOT like the donut... So, tonight I'm trying some of the suggestios I've gleamed off of this site. (using a bicycle inner tube to restrict the thickness of the "donut"

Lets face reality.... Idiots who boast of their 10-14" cocks haven't realized that 1) a pussy can push out something 21" long weighing 4-10lbs... The circumfrence of the head of a baby exceeds that which most of us pump to.

2) long and thin means nothing. even I bottom out in her pussy and I'm an average joe at 6.5" erect. HOWEVER, when I am 6.5" long and AS THICK AS MY FOREARM... she screams in pleasure.... GIRTH MEANS MUCH MORE THAN LENGTH.

SO, TALK TO YOU GIRLFRIEND ABOUT WHAT PLEASES HER MORE.. LENGTH, OR WIDTH... I'D PUT $50.00 DOWN THAT SHE SAYS GIRTH..

KEEP IT UP...! PUMPING RULES!!

STINKFINGER..

Tr22 · Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 37

I kept my pumping from my wife for about 2 months and she found out accidently. I had taken a picture and had it on my computer on one of my picture discs. It was of the first time I had packed my tube. My wife found it one night and wanted to know what I was doing. She had NO IDEA that I was pumping to get bigger, she thought that it was simply to get off. She asked me why I needed that thing and not her. That's when I introduced her to this site and the rest is history. I occasionally get a text message asking for a "BIG SURPRISE" tonight and I also send her pictures occasionally of a good pump session. We have 3 kids so it's hard to get a good session in most of the time, but my wife loves it. Hope you can get her to come around man.

theonemanbukkake · Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 128 Location: Boston, MA

Sorry to hear she doesn't approve, but what is her reason? If it is safety, explain to her how it works and that you kow what you are doing. If it is the look, well you can't do much about that, so you have to show her the benefits of pumping.

I have shared this 'hobby' with serveral of the women I have been with and only one was still weirded out by it, but she loved the way it felt. In fact, everyone of the women who have experienced the full effect (500ml infusion or more or a pump for over 1hr) that resulted in a big sack, loved the way it slapped the clit during doggy style. Others have loved the way they can feel my sack against their thighs or that they can fuck and sit on my balls.

I would show her this site and explain how it works. Women usually love when a guy shares a secret kink with them. It builds trust and they get to be a little wild. If she is that worried, have her email me directly and I will answer her questions.

Good Luck...

Sweeternuts · Joined: 14 Apr 2008 Posts: 31

She doesn't want ya ta 1 stretch her out and 2 if u can make her cum really hard it puts u in control of sex with her 3 she likes be in control

testosterone1 · Joined: 19 Oct 2008 Posts: 30

I know this thread is old but I felt like sharing how me and my wife thought about me getting into pumping.Since I am 4" erect which satisfies my wife,I have always wanted a bigger penis my whole life. I suffered and felt inferior because I was not even in the average range. I read about pumping and saw the pics here of the results.So I told my wife that I was going to get a toy that would help me get alittle bigger.She wasn't upset about it but she couldn't understand why I would want a bigger penis when she has already been satisfied by mine for 19 years. So I bought a cheap pump from a sex store. I got it and I was getting a thrill looking to see how big my penis looked inside the tube. The only problem was that the toy had no way of getting a constiction ring on intime to keep the size that I got that was inside the tube.So yesterday, I went on line and got a Dr Kaplan basic kit.She doesn't know about how much money I spent. When she finds out, I got a feeling my penis is going to do some shriveling Surprised

bumper · Joined: 11 May 2006 Posts: 303 Location: u.k.

My partner knows that I pump. I told her when I first found out about it and wanted to try. Sometimes she pumps me up before sex. After a while
we found out about pussy pumps and have some good sessions pumping each other. I think honesty right from the begining is the way to go. If they find out by accident you might miss out on some fun. Also tell her that she might find your bigger cock gives her greater satisfaction Exclamation

testosterone1 · Joined: 19 Oct 2008 Posts: 30

One thing for sure. If I sucessfully get my penis pumped,I am going to find out that infamous question.Does size really matter? Atleast I will find out my wife's answer to the question Cool

testosterone1 · Joined: 19 Oct 2008 Posts: 30

My wife thought I was a total pervert when she saw the pump from the sex shop I got.Maybe she's right but I told her how long I have wanted to have a bigger penis and how much it meant to me. Life can suck with a 1/2 inch flaccid and 4" erect. I only got one humiliating comment about my penis from a girl about 40years ago and it stuck with me all my life.

jerbear62 · Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Posts: 676 Location: central, IL

When I wanted to begin pumping I had been on here and read as much about it and went to our local sex store. I then talked to my wife and told her what I wanted to do and what it could mean to her. We then went to the sex shop looked at all they had and bought one. That day I pumped for an hour and half. Didn't get much out of it in size but I was hooked. I enjoyed the pressure, the feel and wanted to see where things went. I did eventually get more girth and a little more length. The best part was seeing my wives reaction to the new cock she was riding and was sticking in her. She loved it, she doesn't like the looks of the donut but loves the feel as it enters and exits her pussy. I did over do it once and we wasn't able to get it in, she did love the feel of jacking me off but told me to not go so big so she could enjoy it. J

gotta · Joined: 19 Jan 2008 Posts: 81

i have a few pics of my wife and i pumping! i also attemted to hide my passion for pumping for two years while also juggling three kids. i just showed her this site and she got intersested and the rest is down hill! with three kids the double pump doesn't happen often but she does ask me to pump my balls while she locks the bedroom door and deals with the kids at night!